Over The Knee Podcast

For this introductory episode we talk about how we transitioned from a vanilla couple to D/s. Well, we attempt to.

We talk about a panic attack Amy recently had, about upcoming changes to our lives. I confront her with what I think the real cause was.

Is it really 24/7? A closer look at what we mean when we talk about 24/7 D/s.

Our sadomasochism has been blooming. We use this podcast to pause and talk about where our pain play is headed, when Amy should safeword, and our general feelings about accepting or sadism and masochism. Instructor144's post on calibration: instructor144.tumblr.com/post/158388695266/1-10

I ask CynicalDom a series of questions to explore more about his personality, dominance, and his beliefs and views on our D/s relationship.

I ask Amysubmits a series of questions and hypotheticals to learn more about her views on submission, dominance and 24/7 D/s. Also some of the questions are just there to troll her.

What does respect look like in our 24/7 Dominant / submissive relationship? Do we respect each other equally? What do we really mean when we talk about respect?

We discuss whether we think we appear normal to most people, and how normal or weird our daily D/s and kink really is. We also answer questions about switching, sadism, and how much control CynicalDom has over my free time and social life.

We talk about a recent bout of depression Amy had, and the anxiety and old worries that it stirred up. Amy brings up that maybe she needs maintenance spankings, and gets resistance. We answer an ask about consensual non-consent and sexual abuse.

We talk about whether starting domestic discipline or D/s saved our relationship, and several other aspects while answering a long but interesting ask from another couple that started vanilla but transitioned to D/s together. We also talk about how public we are with our D/s, and update on our sadomasochism play.

Would we ever use soft limits as punishments? What does each of us get out of orgasm control? How do I know when to tell Amy no when she asks for something? We answer questions we received in this little mid-week bonus episode.

We talk about questions Amy received on tumblr, Hitachi Magic Wands, failed boners, orgasms that did not live up to the effort, how Amy understands the positive feelings of being a dominant a little better, and what she's really asking for when she asks for a spanking.

We talk about whether we could be as successful in our relationship without physical punishments, debate how much physical punishments are tied to our kinks, what is Amy really looking for when she asks what she should eat, dealing with social anxiety, and our end goal with 24/7 D/s,